Why We Should Live a Nonchalant and Carefree Lifestyle

The luxury of not caring what people think about you is amazing.  It allows you to live the life you want to live, do the things you want to do, and feel good about it.  The best part is that you create your own unique identity and people will love you for who you are.  There is no need to act "cool."  I find that when people try to put on the "cool" mojo, they are far less funny and sociable, and in consequence are less happy.  The more carefree you are about what others the think of you, the more you are able to achieve your "best self."  It is human instinct to judge, but as humans we are also blessed with the ability to reason and think beyond our impulses.  Our self esteem shouldn't be volatile based upon other people's judgement, but gained through helping others and yourself.